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The Gifts You Have To Give Are Multitudinous And Magnificent

The Gifts You Have To Give Are Multitudinous And Magnificent

The gifts you have to give are multitudinous and magnificent--and your time
to give those gifts has only just begun.

The life events of this moment are being placed in your life to provide you with a perfect
context within which to experience the true wonder and glory of Who You Really Are.

Truly, without a lot of fluffy talk, it is time for you to know and to express the fullness
and the richness of how wonderful, of how special, you are.

These events, the occurrences of these days and times, the challenges in your life right
now, are designed by you(at a very high level) to give Little You a chance to
experience and express Big You...right here, right now. Take a look at what you are facing
in this moment, on this very day. Do you think this is all by accident? -Conversations With
God ###

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD is an internationally recognized expert on bridging Science, Spirit and Human Potential with over 30+ years experience as a transformation facilitator, speaker, and educator in natural health and wellness; personal/ professional development. She holds a PhD in Metaphysics. She is Founder/CEO of Genesis Consultants, Inc. Past President, International Association for Regression Research and Therapies, she serves on the board for Arizona Holistic Chamber of Commerce; Faculty Member for the World Regression Congress - Netherlands, India, Brazil, Turkey and Portugal 2014. http://drdorothy.net http://teamasea.com/DrDorothy

Rainbow of Lights ~ Channeled Message by the 24 Elders

The 24 Elders of the Throne of Grace on The Energies We Have Been Feeling

We come to you from the Elders Surrounding the Throne of Grace. We want to share a special message that we think that you will enjoy.

Rainbow of Lights are filtering within and around the Earth at this time. The activations that have been ongoing are creating waves of frequency to allow the essence of Divine Completion to be created. We all know that everyone is being challenged by the integration of allowing the Rays of God to be infiltrated within them. As you know we represent the 12 Rays of God through the Christ Consciousness.

We have been working hard to allow these essences to be blended within the Earth’s atmosphere. Some areas are receiving more deeply than others but with the activation of the Angelic Presence on January 11th we have been able to access the hemisphere more directly than previously. [To hear this message click here.]

We call this the Rainbow of Lights transition as we represent all 12 Rays of God and our activity is becoming more prevalent within the creation of light unto the planet. This effect is causing some individuals to go deeper into their essence and for others it is causing them to feel the ill effects that are within them. Divine Mother and Father God opened up the doorways for this frequency of the combination of light to be integrated into the Earth’s atmosphere during the 1st Angelic Communication of the 11th. What is happening through this process that individuals are feeling the effects of the Rays of God within them and around them. It will assist GAIA and inhabitants of the planet to feel more deeply within our thought processes and emotional feelings.

Changes are taking place and it is important that we assist every individual as deeply as we can to transition into their higher self. We take this frequency of light and allow the rainbow effect to blend through the skies into the atmosphere of Gaia. As we do this, the essence of each of the rays is felt through the particular wavelength of the spectrum of that ray. In other words, individuals may feel a particular essence to embrace their present energies. Each of the 12 rays represents the facets of growth into a higher existence than was previously felt. The Spectrum of Light ranges from the ray emitting a color that is very light and subtle. In fact, many individuals may not be realizing what is happening, but it will help others to wake up into a deeper thought process than they would have engaged in previously.

This activation is helping initiates to access particular Rays of God that they are not integrating presently as everyone needs to fully allow each of the rays to be part of their essence. Individuals may find that they are particularly attracted to a color they have never experienced before and that is due to the fact that color is being emitted to them through their Higher Self to help them in their present life circumstance.

This is going to help initiates and those of ready-to-be initiates to allow themselves to move into a deeper part of their essence that has not been acknowledged previously. We want everyone to realize that this has never occurred before as a mass exodus from our essence into each human being that is ready to acknowledge new parts of themselves. This, in turn, will activate each of the overlighting Masters and Beings associated with that ray to work with that individual on a more personal basis. This will come through the dream state, meditative state, and then aware state. This process is quite different as we usually work with the Ray Chohans, first and foremost. Everyone on the planet is being given a divine dispensation to allow the 12 Rays of God to be embodied within them.

Just by example, if an individual needs to be assisted within their strength and courage, then they would be more aligned to the color of the Blue of Will and Power; Golden Yellow would represent someone looking for a deeper meaning of truth and expansion of the mind which is Love and Wisdom; Deep Pink relates to the need to create and manifest while having mental illumination of Creative and Active Intelligence; seeing Crystalline colors in sparkles would relate to need to balance the emotions and the mind and changing them through Harmony & Balance; feeling the need of Greens, Gold, and White would represent the ability to open One’s psychic abilities and looking for answers of Scientific Research; when an individual needs to feel peace within themselves they will feel the Ruby Red which is reflected in a very dark red of Inner Devotion; feeling the spectrum of light represented by Purple and Violet would be attributed to looking to create ceremonies and invocate energies by words of God of the Ceremonial Structure and Magic; feeling the essence of Sea-Foam Green is wanting to go into a higher state of healing while accessing the Divine Qualities of the Higher Self; the color of Blue-Green is representing of allowing the body to receive a higher light quotient; feeling colors of Pearlescent represent the balance happening between the masculine and feminine aspects within the physical body while surrendering the mental mind allowing the soul to fully merge; when an individual is ready to walk into the new world physically the colors of Pink-Orange are very attractive to them; and when an individual fully accepts their Christ Body they will start to see the Golden Flame within them.

Now this does not mean that every individual will be activating all of these rays, but we will see a definite improvement upon the quality of people’s lives as the Rainbow Frequency is being received. This new frequency is now the vibration of this Earth and will help to move the essence of Gaia into a new existence.

So if you, as an initiate, have been feeling a pull towards certain colors that may not have been in your attraction previously, move towards them. You are being guided by each of us to help you go deeper into the aspects of yourself. You may also find that the colors will change as you need to interpret a deeper meaning of the spectrum of light.

We know you are probably asking yourself, “What does this mean for me”. Well, we are coming to that point. The Rainbow of Lights is going to assist each individual to feel better about themselves and to move through the processes of their acceleration within a deeper level. In order to receive the fifth dimensional body each of these rays are embodied within each of you. If you are not ready to receive a certain frequency, then there could be an adverse effect. On the other end of the spectrum, if you already hold a vast amount of this ray then it needs to be disbursed through your four body system to align each of the levels to become One Body of Light. Each of these rays become intertwined within your chakras and the higher rays of 8 and upward become the higher chakras integrating within the first seven. So it is imperative at this time that each of you understand the process you are going through within an esoteric view. Everything is not as it may seem.

During this process you may have felt uncomfortable within your body, painful areas may become more painful, lack of energy, and periods of acceleration but then needing additional sleep to compensate. Whatever is weak within the body, may become weaker. Eventually it will all even out within your full body system activates, but until that time there is going to be changes occurring within you. Each day when you awake may be quite different. The changes within the planet are affecting you greatly and vice versa.

The planetary consciousness is also going to feel these emanations of light but in a lesser degree. You may find individuals waking up more easily and then others fighting the process. Unfortunately, this is a necessary part of transition of either waking up or staying asleep. This is a divine dispensation that has been given directly from the Cosmic Frequencies of Divine Mother and Father God as the Cosmic Great Central Sun.

That is why we are here. We want you to understand from the Cosmic perspective what is occurring in these phases of acceleration. If you allow yourself to comprehend it within your physical consciousness, the rest will happen very quickly. Some of you already know there is something more happening within you. We are here now and this is not going to change but the acceleration of the Rainbow of Lights will increase with each passing full moon and cycles of the planet. Right now our energies are very subtle to assist as much as possible.

We know you realize you are changing but it is time for each of us as the Elders representing the 12 Rays of God to become more fully actualized within the consciousness of GAIA and that includes each of you. Assistance is here. Take some moments and breathe deeply to see what colors you are envisioning through your third eye. You may receive one or all of them depending of what you need most within that moment.

We are The Elders that Surround the Throne of Grace
Representing Rays 1 through 12:
Alura & Aluri ~ Ralya & Ralyio ~ Seelea & Seeleo ~ Esteela & Esteelo ~ Zatheeah & Zatheeia ~Astia & Fratia ~ Teesian & Teesio ~ Aheliohah & Ahelieoh ~ Aselow & Aselay ~ Helleiasa & Helleaso ~ Sannalia & Sannaliare ~ Ahheliah & Ahhleeio

-In the Light of the Divine Sharing our Rainbow of Lights, We Are One!

The Obsession To Be In Control

The conditioned consciousness is always looking
for someone or something to dominate
either through the use of subtle intelligence or brutal force.

When brutally honest, control is the name
of many a game and many a social encounter.

Making a good first impression is never as it seems,
for the conditioned consciousness is afraid
of showing its weaknesses and faults.

Planning for success at all costs,
the controller is controlled by the need
to appear to be in control.

Like a drop of water that is hanging onto
the back of a fresh leaf or piece of vegetation,
every moment is a moment of inward suspension.

Suspended between all of the world’s victories
and downturns, when will the drop of my existence
fall back into the nothingness of time.

Losing control is paramount to emptying the self
of all that it has experienced, sensed and tasted since
it has entered the cyclical continuum of repeated sufferings.

Building an empire out of sand and stone,
everything begins to crumble and shake
within less than one lifetime.

A king and a prince for a day, old age
makes every royal pleasure next to nill.

Having a surplus of guards and defense mechanisms,
the desire to suffer in ignorance of the buddha nature
weakens one’s hold over the reality of Reality.

Outwardly controlled and dominated by the
fortune of the race, racing to the finish line
will meet in never reaching that overly glamorized
point of departure.

Lifting one leg at a time, the sage is somewhat cautious
over trying to cheat the natural unfoldments
of life’s wavering processes.

A fish one day and a demon the next,
the wheel of conditioned consciousness offers
a wide variety of sensory phenomena to try to take control of.

Controlling nothing but one’s desires,
everything else is left up to the decisions
of rotating stars and slowly moving galaxies.

Washed over by a million and one desires,
the conditioned consciousness is a bucket
of mixed and conflicting emotions.

At war with birth and death, one should aspire
for a life that is empty of control issues.

Bringing everything to life,
one is controlled in every other possible way.

In a universe of polarity, each time the planets swing,
one is swung another time around one’s own deceptions.

Grounded in the terrestrial abode or mandala of human desires,
the happiness of others is enough to make one irritated.

Fed up and fuming with smoldering rage,
the desire game is the only game where one keeps
losing on a consistent basis.

Inheriting nothing but one’s mind,
death is the enemy and chastiser of
one’s overly needy life expectations.

Practicing the mahamudra,
liberation is the non dualistic experience of self control.

Mounting the mountain of nothingness,
elements, demons, and the life airs
are all fictions of one’s running imagination.

A buddha for a day, extend the length of that day
into an infinite day of unending merit and unrivaled integrity.

In control when no longer in control,
the life of a buddha is the life that one is meant to
calmly breathe into until mastery is mindfully born.

Copyright - The Blue Cross And Shining Sunset Academy

Why do people think they can be

Violin Who do you think you are ready to give the life that I wanted then revealing the reality of a person that made me scream-wow can I get a real thing going can I really see something that is not real. I feel that wehn a perons wants you to look at something its usually not what you want to see but not when you really need it the way they are not me I will tell you to your face or show you. Something real is goiing to happen to be a part of the process of what you think its going to be is the part that I want. I think you think that you can sit and really be who you want us to think you are but we find out dont we, only takes timee what a flog that completes the form of intellect that you think you have. Weh you really look at yourself you see what you really are doing I myself dont mind looking but you really. Karma is a part of what you are doing or is it a part of where you are going....Wow another scream NONONONONO Its your move you made it. So I thought I new you but diddent. To dent is to actually be a part is a grand sceam of things to be aware is to move forward.

To Lift your life is to mean to bring about the goodness of speaking out and to move forward withyour self. My self with them that deserve what I give not to take what I am not giving. Cause they cant I would not. Remember you are the one that makes your choices remember to let others also make theres or the Karma you build will be others to make you move...

Your Daily Reading: “Living Wide Awake™” Create the Money You Desire 1-25-13

Working with groups will create the money you desire, with the intentions you set.
Opposing Energies: scarcity consciousness, fixed thinking, inflexible
While you’re more money-minded than usual today, it’s about educating others and teaching.
Keep your focus on dynamic partnerships and mutually beneficial business dealings.
Meetings materialize fast, so educate and make your arrangements, preparing for just about anything.
Wide Awake Words™ for today: prosperity, willingness, tenacity
Financial outcomes from deals could be quite unexpected and quick.
“Uniting Spiritual Growth with Conscious Living”™
© 2013 The Sage Lady All Rights Reserved.

Card of the Day: Herald of Pentacles

(Illustrations from Archeon Tarot deck used with permission of U.S. Games Systems, Inc., Stamford, CT. c. 2005 by U.S. Games Systems.)

There are some strange emotions that build up in me when I see this card, that quite often I am not sure how to take it. This card looks at trust and honesty and how easy it is to feel great about it and how just as easily you can be burned. Usually, when I read this card, I speak about being aware of what is being said and to ensure that you don’t jump to conclusions – find out the answers for yourself. But this time I want to go into it a little more.

When you discover a betrayal, what is your instant reaction? Do you just want to confront the person and yell and scream. Does that betrayal hurt you to the core? Of course it does depend on what that betrayal is, but generally I go about confronting the person – “Why did you do that?” often being the first question I ask (or scream at) them. But is this really productive?

When faced with a betrayal, you should take some time to analyse the situation before reacting. As I usually say – ensure you find out all the answers first, but not only that. How would confronting the person truly benefit your life journey? If you don’t confront them, but rather use the knowledge to help you make better decisions (especially regarding your interactions with them) and let it diffuse naturally, isn’t that better than facing the heat and upset that is caused by confronting the person? Especially if it makes no difference to the situation or the outcome?

Of course there are those betrayals that need to be confronted, as you can’t move on if you still have the person in your life, and it’s not as simple as distancing yourself, but today we are encouraged to reflect on the situation as a whole and consider your reactions/response to the issue before doing so.

Have the animals ascended this video says yes!

Go to Youtube for this video and enjoy. I know I did. Animals of all breeds are getting along together, amazing!

Your story is worth sharing of your loved one in spirit!!

So strange, talked to a friend yesterday and told her about the book I was writting and asked if she had a story to share. At first she said no, but then she started to think about it and realized that yes she did have a wonderful story to share. As she told her story of how her grandmother connects with her, she completely lit up, so beautiful to watch, and then to my surprise at the end , she ...looked at me and said, that's not an important story to tell.
After convincing her that her story mattered and need to be share, she finally agreed!

Then I got to thinking, how many times I have had this similar conversation with so many people that don't think their story is worth sharing, it's not important enough, or spectacular.

For me a story worth sharing, is one that when you speak of the ones you love in spirit and light up - that story, be it one sentence or 1000 words, that is worth sharing with the world!!!

The Beauty of the Spirit

By Joseph J. Mazzella in West Virginia, USA
Posted on January 9, 2013

I was walking towards the store when I first saw her. She was between eighty
and ninety years old. Her hair was thin, sparse, and as white as the snow on
the sidewalk outside. Her face was red, chapped, and wrinkled from a lifetime
of use. Her mouth was missing most of its teeth. Her gnarled hands each carried
a bag full of groceries. She wore work boots that had clearly seen better days.
As she shuffled slowly towards the door she stopped only once to put down her
bags and button her thin, wool jacket.

I hurried my pace and opened the door for her. She smiled at me with her
few remaining teeth and said, "Thank you young man." I touched my gray hair
and smiled at being thought of as a young man again. Then I watched as this
ancient angel slowly walked to the food drive collection bin and lifted the
heavier of her two bags up to put into it. She made one last stop on her way
out to say "hi" to a young mother she knew. The mother had her baby girl in
her arms and the elderly woman gently reached down and tickled the child under
her chin. The little girl laughed with joy and kicked her feet. The old lady
laughed as well in her cracked voice and then continued happily on her way.
I stood there watching her and thought to myself:
"That was the most beautiful woman I have ever seen."

I am so thankful to God for teaching me over the years how to see clearly.
I no longer look at the world through the eyes of society with its plastic
surgery view of what is beautiful and what is not. God has showed me through
His love, His grace, and His guidance to see with the eyes of my soul and to
recognize the beauty of the spirit in each of us.

I hope that lovely old woman continues to touch others with her gentleness,
kindness, and joy for years to come. May her beauty, love, and light shine
bright on Earth and in Heaven.



I speak from my heart so that my words are received in the love and light they are sent.
A year has passed from the moment the sacred hoop was broken between us. As I am neither in the same place nor am I the same person I will follow tradition and introduce myself.
Namaste I am Rick son of Randy Huffman, Grandson of Sid Huffman, and Brother to Becky Miller.
(In this way we start out in a higher state of being so that we can search for connection that shows that we are connected and that we are family and speak with love and respect given to family.)
I am a Holistic Healer, I walk the Red Road and use the love and light I hold in my heart to help those in need. I know that words are just that, Words. I also know that we are perceived by our actions.
I will not say I am Sorry about what happen as it would be a lie. (They were my actions I will own up to them.)
I humbly ask for forgiveness for my actions in breaking our hoop and send love and light to you.

-------------->Looks up and into the Mirror at Self<-----------------------------------

Love Is Stronger Than Justice

Love Is Stronger Than Justice

Love is stronger than justice,” Sting said. If you believe you have been "unjusted" and are looking for 'justice', you may be looking for the wrong thing. What would transpire if you sought love instead? And what would transpire if you gave love instead of seeking it?

This might require forgiveness. Yet, if you start with yourself—-you need to begin by forgiving yourself for all the things you may have done that were not okay with another. You will find it much easier to forgive another for what did that was not okay than what you have done that is not okay with you. ###

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD is an internationally recognized expert on bridging Science, Spirit and Human Potential with over 30+ years experience as a transformation facilitator, speaker, and educator in natural health and wellness; personal/ professional development. She holds a PhD in Metaphysics. She is Founder/CEO of Genesis Consultants, Inc. Past President, International Association for Regression Research and Therapies, she serves on the board for Arizona Holistic Chamber of Commerce; Faculty Member for the World Regression Congress - Netherlands, India, Brazil, Turkey and Portugal 2014. http://drdorothy.net http://teamasea.com/DrDorothy


It is a well known fact that harboring resentments against oneself or others is detrimental to the health of our mind and body. In our lives, we have committed many errors or mistakes, or have acted 'badly' in the past. We have hurt people, irritated them, cheated them, manipulated them, insulted them----we have knowingly or unknowingly done a whole lot of things to those around us---parents, children, friends, relatives, neighbors, colleagues etc. If we have hurt others unknowlingly, we would normally be unaware of our faults until someone pointed it out to us and these don't cause us to feel miserable, unless we become aware of them by being told. But those mistakes and errors that we have knowingly committed keep coming back to haunt us frequently, as guilt.

Why should we forgive? Forgiveness is more for the sake of ourselves than others. Forgiveness is often selfish, for our own peace of mind and well being of the body. In the bargain, we also make others peaceful and happy. Like we do so many things for self gratification, for being happy, we should also look at forgiveness as something that would benefit us and in fhe bargain, benefit others too.

Why do we not forgive others easily? When we feel insulted, our ego gets bruised. Now, our ego is a false identity that we have assumed or have been given in this life. When we are born or when we die, we have no ego. A newborn child, till he is two or three has no self awareness and no ego. But since we need to survive in this world, we need to safeguard ourselves, our ego develops as a safety mechanism. Hence, condemning the ego is not a good thing, because you are alive and well today only because your ego has helped you do that. It is better to understand that the ego was necessary at an early stage of development, in order to study, to earn a living, to safeguard ourselves and our families, but with time, the purpose of the ego has to go down and it has to slowly melt away. That does not happen easily and the go only keeps going from strength to strength, creating more and more problems for ourselves and others.

Holding on to anger and resentments, which are actually nothing but our thoughts, eventually creates a chemical imbalance in our bodies, leading to disease and ill health. As the Buddha said "Holding on to anger is holding on to a hot charcoal. It only burns the person holding it". If not for any other reason, one must learn to forgive for the survival of the self. In order to forgive others (and oneself) one needs to understand that this world belongs equally to all of us, that all of us are equal, all of us come with our own destinies and fate, and that at one level, we are all pawns being manipulated by some higher force. In order to realize that we are being manipulated and are puppets in this divine game plan needs some intelligence, observation and awareness. Once we become aware of how events have shaped up in our lives and in those of others, we understand that no one is actually responsible for his or her acts, and that these acts get done through us, not by us. In order to forgive, we need to relinquish our sense of doer-ship. Once doer-ship is given up, then there is no sin, no virtue, no good or bad. Everything is only happening through us, not by us and hence there is no responsibility. If there is no responsibility, there is no anger, no guilt and actually, the question of forgiveness does not come in.

If no one is responsible, if no one is the doer, then who will forgive whom? The whole idea of forgiving then becomes an illusion. An actor in a drama or film does not have to apologize or ask for forgiviness of his co-stars for having insulted them in a particular scene. He was only following the director's instructions and doing his job. No forgiveness is given and none is expected.

Forgiveness has also become an ego game for us. We feel proud to forgive someone. That is not any true forgiveness. If you have truly forgiven someone, you will not even remember it. And the true test of forgiveness is that if you come to know that the person you have forgiven has met with success in life, has brought a fancy car or apartment, or has won a million dollar lottery, will you be peaceful, or will you seethe and feel jealous? Ask yourself truthfully and if the answer is yes, then you have not forgiven that person truly.

Perfect kindness acts without thinking kindness. Perfect forgiveness acts without thinking forgiveness.

The Heart Of An Inauguration

The Heart Of An Inauguration

Writing this is a departure from my policy of no comments on political matters in this forum. This is not politics per se. It is however, about my experience watching the inauguration of a president who many people have railed against and threatened impeachment or disqualifying him to run, because they had irrefutable proof he was not born in the United States.

As I watched the televised broadcast of the 44th President’s inauguration, I was reminded of John F. Kennedy’s inauguration. I felt inspired, hopeful and in admiration of the citizenry, which elected a Catholic president for the first time. Likewise, I am inspired, hopeful and in admiration of the citizenry, which elected a mixed race president. This historic event brings a sense of pride and renewal. There has been little in the previous president’s eight years to feel honored to be an American.

The 44th president, against great odds, stepped up to the plate, and showed his humility, his brilliance, his commitment to equal rights, and his persistence to plowing the weeds under in every field. He reminded us that hard work, focus and dedication can bring us what we declare we desire. He demonstrated that presidents do not need to hide their love of their family. He demonstrated that presidents can be soft, caring, firm and disciplined—simultaneously.

He opened our eyes to the democracy this world deserves, and brought color, commitment, and soul to a white house that has been white and soulless far too long.

He has reminded us what one person can do against great odds. Regardless of what he accomplishes the next four years, he has grabbed the torch and continued what Martin Luther King started; lived and died for.

The 44th president of the United States demonstrates integrity, humility and passion in equal proportions with grace and dignity. This is a lesson for men and women of all color.

Regardless of your political beliefs, let us pray Barack Obama will make an indelible legacy in the next four years, and that his footsteps bring us closer together. Bless his health and his stamina as he marches to the beat of his heart, integrity and passion. ###

Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD, Metaphysician - Certified Hypnosis and Regression Practitioner, Author and Speaker. Dr. Dorothy facilitates clearing blocks, fears and limiting beliefs. You can live the life you desire. She facilitates Past Life Regression and Future Life Progression. She is featured in the documentary The Business of DisEase. She was a World Regression Congress faculty member in the Netherlands, India, Brazil and Turkey. http://www.drdorothy.net http://facebook.com/DrDorothyNed http://teamasea.com/drdorothy http://empowernetwork.com/drdorothy

A poem from my collection .... hope you like it ... Gareth :)


I love to come together
My pieces seem to fit
My whole self is unified
A wondrous sense is this.

I choose to come together
So disjointed were my parts
I could barely find alignment
As I struggled with my past.

And now a time has come
When I no longer need to fret
These pieces I was forcing
Seem simply to connect.

You see now I’ve found the picture
The pieces all make sense.
It was struggling without the box
That made my life so tense.

Once I found the picture
I put myself away
I lost that nagging urge
To pull myself apart each day.

But every now and then
When I was really off my guard
Someone took me out and shook me
Till my pieces came apart.

And every time this happened
It became a tiresome job
To recognise my picture
And reconnect myself as one.

So I bought myself a frame today
And a tube of superglue.
I don’t want to be a jigsaw
But a picture, more like you.

And yet I’ve got this nagging sense
That it won’t feel all that great
To be bound up rigid
And permanently encased.

No, I like to be a jigsaw.
It gives me freedom to express
My many different edges
And my “togetherness”.

Yes, I’m staying as a jigsaw
And if they shake me I’ll stay kind
Cos’ my picture can’t be broken,
It is all a frame of mind.

The Virtues of Bikes, Bourbon and Rock 'N Roll

Guest Blog: The Virtues of Bikes, Bourbon and Rock 'N Roll

Blurring Gender Roles are Fine, Writer/Rocker Says, But Men Still Need to be Men

Does a real man stay at home with the kids while his wife goes to work? Is he OK if she earns more than him? Will he do the cooking – and like it?

Yes, yes and yes, says contemporary philosopher Eli Just, author of the popular supernatural adventure series that begins with “Manny Jones and the Place” (www.elijustsupernaturalwriter.com).

“The 'new masculinity’– the new manly man – understands the value of blurring those old gender lines. And he’s also found the satisfaction and real pleasure that comes with some of those things,” Just says.

“But he balances that with some of the old old-school ideas about what it is to be a man. There’s still a lot to be said for the freedom of roaring along a highway on a motorcycle, sipping bourbon, and playing rock ‘n roll with your buddies in the garage.”

Just points to a poll of more than 87,000 men in the United States, Canada, the United Kingdom and Australia. AskMen’s Great Male Survey found that:

• 94 percent would feel fine about their wife earning more than they do. (“That may just indicate we’re evolving,” Just says. “It doesn’t seem kind of stupid to be upset about a better lifestyle just because you’re not the one providing it!)

• 78 percent say marriage potential is “very” or “somewhat” important in evaluating how they feel about the woman they’re dating. (“It’s nice to see we’re raising our standards,” Just says.)

• 64 percent cook at home and like it – only 5 percent called cooking “woman’s work.” (“It stands to reason that if you’re wife is out making the big bucks, you better learn to cook or go hungry,” Just says.)

• 50 percent say the ultimate manly man is a good husband and father. That beat out traditional “manly” virtues such as being good at fixing things (13 percent) and being a great lover (4 percent).

This new appreciation of men’s roles and responsibilities is great, Just says, but if guys want to remain attractive to the opposite sex, they need to retain some of their guy-liness.

Men need to be open to adventure. They need to be courageous. And they need to lose those little skinny jeans and dress like men,” he says. “We’re already slipping on achievement – more women are getting college degrees than men. More women than men are breadwinners.

“There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a woman. I love women. But men are not
women and we shouldn’t try to be!” What does Just recommend for putting some muscle
back into manhood?

• Find your sparkplugs. If you don’t know how to change your engine oil, you need to fix that. Take a class in basic automotive maintenance and repairs – they’re often offered at adult schools and community colleges. “There is nothing less appealing to a woman than a man who has no clue about what’s under the hood – especially when she’s broken down on the side of the highway,” Just says.

• Do a chin-up. A basic difference between men and women is upper body strength. If you’ve let yours go, you need to get it back. “Men should be strong,” Just says. “They should be able to punch the bad guy or open the pickle jar. Too many of us have let ourselves go. Believe me, your wife-to-be doesn’t want to be carrying YOU over the threshold!”

• Get over the video games. Men have gotten far too preoccupied with video games, Just says. “They’re playing in some fantasy world for hours at a time, getting pale, flabby and weird.” He suggests watching football. While many a wife and girlfriend complains about the time her guy spends watching sports, at least he talks to her during commercials, Just points out. They might even get out and throw a ball around. “You can’t do that with virtual cyber swords,” he says.

About Eli Just
Eli Just is the author of several books including the popular “Manny Jones” series and “The Eddy.” He has a master’s in history from Southeastern Louisiana University and is a self-taught student of physics, which he taught at the high school level. As a Christian, Just enjoys exploring themes involving physics and its relationship to religion. He lives in northern Georgia.
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